Family

I have always had a very caring and loving family. Yes we all have our problems, probably more then most. It has always seemed as if the black cloud of doom follows all of us. This past year in 2008 had been especially bad for my my mom (who lost her little brother). It was also very horrible for my dad (who has horrible lies told about him), and for my brother who finally left his ex who caused all the problems. Now I suppose it is my turn this year to have that cloud of doom strike me, and my husband.
Like I have written in previous posts, I have decided to be done with my in-laws. I had played the nice guy role for too long. My husband never got along with them, and even now things have not changed. Even I do not like them, now that I know them. Not only have they caused drama in my husband and my life, but they have hurt my oldest son Bradley on numerous occasions. Bradley does not like my husbands mother, and is afraid of her. My husband and I made the decision to stop seeing them. We feel this is best for our children. Bradley had even told me at one point that "ma-maw loves Samantha, not me". These were the exact words Bradley told me. Bradley had told me this after Christmas eve when he saw Samantha open a mountain full of presents while Bradley, Parker, and Dustin had the same amount as Samantha only divided between the three of them. It is obvious who these people favor, and it isn't right that my children feel belittled, and that they do not mean as much. I could tell it effected Bradley, and I am sick of my in-laws BS. My husband was 110% right about his parents. Now they threatened taking us to court about "grandparents rights". I spoke to a lawyer, and have him lined up for once we receive papers. I have so many reasons why I dislike Brad's parents. I am still so very angry that they feel they can harm my kids and correct them in a violent manner. Plus not to mention all the horrible statements my father-in-law made over the phone! My husband and I are done with his side of the family. So buh-bye forever you power crazy people!! My husband knew what he was doing when he ran from that family and did not look back. I am sorry Brad, god knows I wish I could turn back time and never have contacted them.