Family

This year has been a rough one for my family. There has been a lot of stuff going on for my father, and brother. But it also effects my mom, my kids, my husband, and myself. It's all a bunch of crap to top things off. It all leads back to my brother's now ex girl friend, AKA Druggie. Druggie is good at ruining lives, and is a HUGE liar. She is destroying her own children, and has already ruined my brother, and fathers life. I really wish all the lying would come to an end. I am not going to go into details about everything (I have in older posts). But I really wish the drama would stop. And everything all leads back to Druggie and her oldest child (which is not my brothers child). My brother is very worried about his 3 children that are stuck with Druggie. Druggie makes herself out to be "mother of the year". Although she is on hard drugs, selling drugs, and an abusive liar. It all really makes me sick. I just pray that one day all her lies are exposed and she goes down in flames! And god protect my brothers children, they need it.

Also, I am angry with Brad's parents (if you want to call them that). I really wish I would have listened to my husband and never contacted his parents. Brad never got along with them, and told me he was mainly raised by his grandparents. Brad hadn't spoken to, or had any contact with his parents for over 2 years. I felt bad for them, being as I'm such a sucker. I sent them a baby announcement when I had our second child. After that Brad's mother started contacting me through email, even though I sent a note along with the birth announcement stating DO NOT contact us in any way. I stated I was only sending a few pictures of the boys to be nice since they had never seen our children. As time went by I convinced Brad to talk to his parents. Things seemed to go OK at first, then down hill. I was finally able to see why Brad wanted nothing to do with his parents to begin with. They are selfish and care about one thing, themselves. They are unwilling to help out their only child (Brad). There are other things that really piss me off about them too, for instance Brads mother hurting Bradley. Bradley is still afraid of her. And when he found a picture of them the other day, Bradley pointed her out to me and told me she is the "bad one and pa-paw is the nice one". I kind of shrugged it off, and Bradley also showed the picture to daddy and said the same thing. Although, I must say, I don't think either of them are the "nice one" I think they are equally the same. I really would like to know what took place that day Bradley got hurt, because it has really stuck with him. Brads mother must have really scared and harmed him for Bradley to remember it for so long! And these people expect me to leave my children with them again, they must be out of their minds!

It all just makes me thankful that I have great parents. My mom especially. My mom has got to be one of the greatest moms out there. She goes all out for her kids, and is the greatest mom, and Grandma. My boys love her to pieces, and she is definitely Bradley and Parkers favorite person. My family is so lucky to have her.