Thursday, December 11, 2008

Stress!!

I wrote a while back about a family issue that has come about. Well, all was quiet until recently, and now it has come back up, just in time for Christmas.

So, here's the story: My brother met this girl 9.5 years ago, her name I won't mention. He has been with her all these years except when the drug addict b**** ran off to Georgia with his kids and was missing for almost two years. They have had tons of problems through out the years, and our family has always said he should have left. She has beaten the crap out of my brother, and he is one of those guys that say "you should never hit a woman". I swear this woman, needs her ass kicked. She has called the cops on my brother on numerous occasions, and he's always the one in trouble even though he's the one with bite marks, bruises and cuts all over him. Even when I took pictures of this, he's the one in trouble.
Well, anyway this woman has a child from a previous relationship, and this kid has been in our family since she was 1.5! We looked at her as if she was part of our family. This kid is now very screwed up (just like her drug addict mother). So, she lies to get her way. My brother was in Iraq for a long time, and during this time my father took this woman and my brothers kids in. My brothers step daughter comes up with an outrageous lie. This lie isn't even something she says happened recently but something she claims happened when she was five. The kids eleven now. Everyone knows it is a lie, because at age five she was never near my dad. Not only that, whenever my brother and all those kids were there, they were never alone. So it is impossible. I am just so angry about it all. So this woman.. who unfortunately is my brothers finance, got in a big fight with my dad while she was staying there, and it just so happened that after that fight was when the kid came up with this lie. So go figure! What a coincident.

So, these social workers that have gotten involved, visited my brothers house yesterday, and told them that they were going to issue a arrest warrant for my dad. They said this before too, and it never happened. So, low and behold the kid is finally fessing up and saying it's all a lie. After letting all this crap get so far, and out of control. Now, I don't know what is going to happen. Since this kid is finally saying she lied, I am hoping this will all stop and go away. I know my brother just wants the family to be back like it used to be. But, I know it never will. I don't want my boys near that lying kid. Not only is that kid a liar, but she's a thief, and she's violent. This kid, has stolen things from her aunts house, from our house, my dads house, even school, and neighbors and friends homes. She was caught in school stealing a year book from another child, and LIED about it. She also was caught at one of her friends houses steeling from her own friend. The neighbors wouldn't even allow this kid over to play, because she was caught steeling money. Ugh, it really is ashame. For only being eleven years old, this kid is so messed up. I know she has gotten like this because of her mother, who was always heavy on drugs and alcohol. Sadly, when we tried to step in years ago and report all the stuff with the kids mother, social services didn't want to hear it. Then the kids mother ran off to Georgia. So, this is what the kid turned into. I just hope and pray that my dad doesn't get arrested for something he did not do. I don't want my kids to spend Christmas with out seeing their pop-pop. My boys love their pop-pop. My brothers REAL daughters love their pop-pop and his sons too. My brother's biological kids never believed what their half sister claimed either. I'm just glad this kid is fessing up, and hope she tells the cops, & social workers the truth about how she's lying. All the kid cares about is getting in trouble, she doesn't care about anything else.

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